All she told TELL Magazine below;
What Nigerians need to know about homoséxuality:
The very first thing we need to understand is that homoséxuality,
biséxuality, aséxuality are all as natural as heteroséxuality. Our
séxual orientation differs; we are born with an innate ability to be
emotionally or séxually attracted or not be séxually or emotionally
attracted to same séx or opposite séx. Unfortunately, many African
societies do not provide enabling environments to discuss séxual
orientation. Séxual orientation does not harm anyone. A person who is
attracted to opposite séx does not harm anyone so far it is a consensual
adult relationship.
A homoséxual who is attracted to the same séx does not harm anybody so far it is a consensual adult relationship.
A Biséxual or Panséxual who can be attracted to all séxes harms no one so far it is an adult consensual relationship.
Even an Aséxual who is not séxually attracted to any gender harms no
one. We are all different, and non-harmful lifestyle of adults should
not be criminalised.
If Nigerians will ever accept homosexuality:
Whether Nigerians accept it or not,
LGBT
rights are recognised human rights. Unless, you can prove that
Lesbians, gays, biséxuals and transséxuals are not human beings, well,
you have no reason to deny them their fundamental human rights.
Unfortunately many Nigerians believe in the
concept of sin. First, we must understand that sin is a religious concept.
Not every Nigerian is religious. Your religion is also a personal matter, why drag other people into your
personal relationship with Jesus, Mohamed or Obatala?
When I am told that homoséxuality is a sin, I just tell them their religion is not my law. The Bible or
Quran is not my constitution, so why is that even coming up?
It is absurd when Christian gay bashers gleefully quote Leviticus 18:22
to justify why they want to jail and stone gays. Anyone who wants to
quote from Leviticus should at least read the book to make sure they are
not guilty of any of the things condemned in the book.
Leviticus also says you should not shave, you should not interact with a
woman in her menstrual cycle, thou shall not eat shrimps or shell fish,
Lev. 11:10,11:6-8 thou shall not touch the skin of a dead pig
(therefore touching football without wearing gloves makes you unclean!)
So, when Christians throw Leviticus at me, I simply throw Leviticus right back in their face.
What her family thinks about her séxual orientation and controversies:
What makes a family is love, tolerance and acceptance. Anyone who shows
me love and welcomes me into their heart is my family. Love is one thing
that is thicker than blood.
My immediate family knows my séxual orientation, my father is late, and
my mother is accepting of whom I am and has shown me love and support.
To continue to be an important part of my life, you cannot be homophobic, biphobic or transphobic.
If her atheism belief is connected to her séxuality:
My atheism has nothing to do with my biséxuality. Atheism is simply a
non-belief in God. My biséxuality is my séxual orientation, no
connection.
However, I must say, my atheism has helped me to stand up against
religious bullies, who use the Bible and the Quran to justify their hate
for gays, lesbians, transséxual and biséxuals.
Religion carries a lot of unwarranted weight in Nigeria and Africa
generally. This should not be so. In fact, this is one reason the
African continent is still very backward.
When religion carried so much weight in Europe during middle Ages, it
was wrought with wars, jihads, killings and ethnic cleansing.
Many religious Africans now use the ‘holy’ books to justify the
oppression of members of their own society. Even when the original
owners of the religion inform them that the book has been updated and
some parts are no longer applicable, Africans still insist that it is
must be applicable because it says so in the book they were given. How
pathetic!
